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Renee Jayne

Judging others. What it means for you?

in Uncategorized on 02/10/20

It’s easy to see the evil and devilish ways of those outside of you as separate from yourself

It’s easy to judge and to spend hours sharing about how horrible “they” are

What isn’t so easy is taking a hard look at your own shadow

What isn’t as fun is opening to the aspect of self that takes the form of a scary beast inside you

Choosing to look at your own shadow and where you show up messy, untidy, hateful, uncivilized and shame-filled will not be as popular

And it is necessary

Even though your outrage is honored

And it can create powerful action

But, if outage is infused with your own unhealed shadow, trauma and deepest shame… you will be projecting

You will be adding to the unhealed collective unconscious

You will be fighting a battle outside of you that you can never win because you haven’t honored the battle raging within

You might say, “but they are doing the unthinkable…”

You might say, “but I want to focus on love, light and gratitude…”

You might say, “I will never forgive…”

You might blame and shame them

And your health will suffer as you sit in judgment and resentment

Within your exhaustion, it is time to look at the underbelly of your own soul

To really look

And that requires that you take moments of quiet with no distraction to Listen

Seek help from someone who does this shadow work with folks, like me or someone else you deeply trust

Someone who will hold the mirror to your subconscious mind: the part of you that you cannot see on your own

You will not be capable of holding the enormous love, light and graciousness that is required to create change

if you have never held and then integrated the part of your psyche that embodies your shadowy aspects

When you find yourself pointing fingers to outside forces, let it serve as reminder that there is work to do on you

Your shadow work won’t be as easy as focusing on them and making them wrong

But it will be an initiation into a liberating love where you are whole

This doesn’t mean you don’t speak up!

It means you speak up MORE while you do MORE of the personal life reviews at the same time

The collective is mirroring our internal landscape

We have work to do

Read that again

The collective pain mirrors our individual pain

It’s time to see this so you can

Alchemize your deepest suffering and challenges

You can transmute your deeply human-lower-self, hard ass lessons into something New

New life and a New Earth come from taking full ownership of The Collective Trauma

We are in this together

Not because we said so

But because we are willing to root self love into our own soul so deeply that it will create permanent change in the world around us

Love you
ALL OF YOU
-Renee

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For anyone who can hear this today and needs the reminder:
Even though there is an enormous amount of external chaos now in our world and systems, going inward and looking at your own personal opportunities to grow is extremely important now.
Especially now you will need more space.

Try not take take other people personally, they need space too.

When things are louder “out there” and there is so much uncertainty, it’s a cue to slow down, tune in to your internal voice and get clear on what you need right now.

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